My Princess Diary

tOmb SwEePiNg

today is tomb sweeping day!!
must be wondering why we did it so early this yr rite?
well, becoz next week, YL is getting married, the week after we having a farewell dinner for him and elaine and then 7th april they will va va zoom...........and NJ here they go!! =))

everything is running on tight schedule this few weeks
no choice, we need to accomodate to YL
afterall, really, like what i told dad today, its all fated.
how many of us can really have the chance to go overseas and do what we like to do.
study and work at same time
most impt, is able to find someone who also has the same goal and aim in life like u
well, apparently, YL does......he is a lucky guy!! so is elaine...... =))
both of them are interested in doin research. and like what they said, in singapore, u cannot make a living out of doing research but in the states, yes u may and CAN!!!
so its their calling, we should not stop them but instead should give them our blessings!!

just like tonight, over dinner, as usual, since i am jobless the topic is on me
not tt i dun like to be the main attraction but i just dun like what my big uncle said
maybe he is right, i dun know, but definitely not like what he said
they asked me why i want to leave my ex co since its so good
i told them coz they changed my job scope and then after voicing it to them, they couldn't offer me anything better so i left
so my big uncle said something like this "the way i look at u. ur character cannot and dun want to work under somebody one. so u need to be your own boss. so u should go along this direction" then i went "but i dun want to be own boss" and he asked "why?" and i went "own boss, bigger responsibilities" then he said "everything also has responsibilities. its very common for the mgt to change your job scope. so just becoz they changed your job scope u dun want to work. then whose responsibility is that?" then i stared at him......sigh, i am totally speechless......how many times must i say???!!!?? its ok if i am doing A and then they add on B to me? but i no A and just do B then its that what u want? and u asked me whose responsibility is tt? WTF???!!?? then one of my cousin's auntie commented" ya lor. now hor, even if u r a teacher, u are also requried to do this and tt" i understand this fully. i have a brain lor, and i can think ok. but dun u guys just get it? if u r a teacher, u HAVE to teach rite? so if they asked u to TEACH and then said tt u got to be the teacher in charge of library and be HEAD of the whatever dept, so be it, its still ok rite? coz u still get to TEACH and u just have extra duties.....if u went and apply for a teacher post, but end of the day, they asked u to wash toilets, feed the students, and u dun get to teach, then will u still stay on? so u tell me now lor, whose responsibility is tt? and for my case, its i dun get to do contracts or research but all i get to do is to set up the filing system, maintain the filing system, so filing, print doc, print dwgs, arrange for meetings, do minutes, make coffee, ta bao for the staff, etc. do i get to do contracts? or research? NOTHING!! so after i voiced out and nothing is done, should i still stay on? the obvious answer is NO!! NO NO NO!! why waste time......so u tell me now whose responsibilty is tt?? definitely not mine!!

ai ya!! anyway, i dun want to talk abt this liao
either u get it or u dun
everybody has their own opinion and as long as i know what i am doing, i dun care about what u guys said....
i dun understand, i never wanted to be own boss, i have been working for ppl for 11 yrs so how could u said tt my character shows tt i dun like to work for ppl. i dun like responsibilities lor. so i have to work for others, i can never be my own boss, i have no idea what i want to do anyway.....anyway, nothing good comes out from his mouth...if not becoz of him, i will never have gone to poly.......i remembered when i got my Os results, i didn't do well, i fluck my ang mo!! hehehe......i cried for one whole night. so very depressed ok. when he knows abt it, he straightaway told me "i get u a job in the bank ok? with such results u have no where to go. go work in the bank, u have a better future there. work ur way up" hello??!!?? come on lor, every heard of retake the exams? like what i did? and i have no interest to work in a bank or for a bank. i know u meant well, but thats not the way to put someone down.......

anyway, let me find a job soon..... then can shut his mouth up!! always look down on ppl....sigh......anyway he spurred me on ONCE AGAIN!!! =((


ok, enough of the sad stories, let's have some light hearted one
my 2nd uncle very funny today lor
when we were at mt vernon, my big uncle saw a spider web
this spider is green in colour lor
and it looked fierce. "seated" in the middle of its web. ma chiam like a king like tt lor
anyway, big uncle and dad went to "disturb" the spider and its web
and my 2nd uncle commented to them not to disturb it as it never disturb us
so big uncle and dad stopped doing what they were doing......destroying its web......hehehe
anyway, big uncle commented "wonder this spider got poison or not hor"
and my 2nd uncle went "easy wat. u want to know? let it bite u then we all will know lor"
hahaha
so stupiak rite.........cmi =))

guessed it will be the last last tomb sweeping session for YL
he won't be ard for this event for the following years to come
of course, will miss him
guess we just have to learn to adjust to changes......and changes, well, bound to have..... dun u agree?

posted by yee2 @ Sunday, March 23, 2008