My Princess Diary

DoUbLe StAndArd??

i came home one evening and the little one told me happily tt her school is orgainsing a dance club to prepare a dance item for TEACHER'S DAY
so i went "nod head"
then she said "yee yee i want to join can?"
and i went "u sure u can join? they have enough ppl liao rite? now then u join. late liao lor"
and she went "i asked already. the teacher said the more the better. and i went to see them dance today. i know the dance steps already."
and i went "if u want, then u go and join lor"
then she went "but i cannot go on monday coz got remedy class and wednesday got the after school care"
then i went "if u really want to join, then just tell teacher ur concern and see whether can accomodate or not."
she said "but popo sure dun allow one"
and then i said 'if u want, just tell popo and arrange with ur teacher. sure can work it out one"

and so since she gotten my blessings, she waited excitedly for her popo to come back
and true enough, the popo said "no"
and she told her popo "but yee yee said can"
and i went "hey, dun always said yee yee this and yee yee tt ok"
and then i told my mama "since she wants let her lor. tomorrow let her go check with her teacher first then say"

the next day, she told me tt the teacher allowed her to join in the dance club and she was so happy
but after tt nite i dun hear any more stories abt the dance thingy

and one evening, when i was having my dinner, i asked her casually "how's the dance"
and she went "i didn't get in, u dun know meh? i never tell u?"
and i went "what happened? i thought u in liao? u never tell me"
and she went ............which i was very mad after i heard it
what is this lor.......at first said the more the better and now this!!
u know how hurting it is to a young girl's heart?? she might think tt she is no good!! how can be like this........sigh

the story goes like this:-

apparently, there is another girl who also joined in the same time
but the teacher said only can enrol 1
so the 2 of them was put to test
they were taught the dance steps and then both were asked to dance
and ok, both passed
and then the next test is "do the split"
and who knows, the other one can do and my poor little one cannot
so she didn't passed and she did not get to join the dance club!!
wtf!!
bloody pork!!

i cannot take it lor
what is this.....really lor
u imagine how hurting it is to the poor girl
just becoz she cannot do the split and she lost out to her classmate
what will she think???? she might think tt she is no good lor........
sigh
the teacher did not handle this thingy fairly, in my own humble opinion
is the split so impt in the dance??
since she said the more the better, then why can't they also let her joined in but maybe as a back up...reserved u know??
last min anything can happened lor
sigh
whatever........really
speechless lor

told her small one to ask her gong gong to go to school and complained
and she immediately said "dun want lah"
hahaha
i think she also scare pai seh leh

posted by yee2 @ Sunday, August 03, 2008