My Princess Diary

GuESsEd ThAt'S iT

u know who just smsed me, telling me tt u know who too send him a writ of divorce. actually also not sure should i blog abt it coz afterall its ppl's affair and they dun want any publicity over it.

so maybe i just do a general blog this evening....cannot spend too much time on this coz i need to go fill up my application and send it out by tomolo and also read sat and sun papers.......hehehe......no time to read... =))

lets call them Husband(H) and Wife (W).....coz "we hereby pronouced u Husband and Wife" hehehe......still can joke hor, not bad rite........
apparently H dun want to go thru the D and W die die also want to go thru
H is feeling unfair coz he feels tt W wants to make it seemed like he is the one at fault
i told H, both party also at fault. so dun feel or think this way
and W afraid tt H will do something silly actually called her to be EX mil to go see her soon to be EX hubby........sigh......must be wondering why she did it rite? well, she has her own reason but definitely not "she still loves him".......anyway, H called W and asked to talk over the issue. and W said OK. so what will the outcome be, i also dun know.......but i do know tt H wants to save the marriage but i also know tt W will never agreed with it and will be bend on gg ahead with the D. afterall its already coming to 2 yrs the couple staying together under the same roof and NO COMMUNICATE AT ALL except for SHOUTING AND SCREAMING....... so i told H, well, dun think too much. since W said will discuss tomorrow then go collects all his thoughts on what he wants to say and do and most imptly end of the day if the talk no goes thru the way he wants what he wants to do and say.......told him before if really cannot do anymore and he felt tt he has done all he could, it would be better to let it go and move on......

i even assured him no matter what happened, never feel or think tt this is the end of his life coz he will never be able to remarry again coz he would be a D. he said he actually thought of this before and think it will be true. i told him, honestly, guy will mind that the girl is a D but for girls, we heck care lor. unless of course the marriage broke down becoz of his bad habits, like gambling, womaniser or becoz other unacceptable behaviour. dun shake head lor and said what i said its untrue for guys.......i tried asking guys in SDU before whether they mind or not, i tell u, ALL said they mind coz dun know what the girl did lor........BLOODY HELL lor. the girls did nothing....why can't they use their pig brains and think tt the guys also can be at fault at times......sigh.......so what the SDU guys studied until degree level or masters or PHD (which inccidentally also stands for permanently head damaged) =))...

sigh....but end of the day, i really dun wish to see them come to this lor. frankly speaking whoever thought of divorcing your partner the moment u married each other. everybody wants a happy ending lor. from the day both said "I DO" till the day both legs stepped into the coffin..... =)) but if really have to end this way, i rather tt its ended in a "happy" ending too... =))

whatever it is, both also my friend lor.......cannot take side, most impt just be a netural party..... i dun wish all these to turn into an ugly scene lor. end of the day if still can remain as friends why not rite? though i doubt it.....but whatever its is, please remember lor, this path is u guys choose one lor, be together, married each other, go thru thick and thin and finally one party decided to give it all up....nobody to blame and nobody instigated one, so dun one day sit down and recall the past and start to regret this or tt lor. there was TRUE LOVE in the beginning, just tt where did it go.........

bear this in mind, dun becoz of a moment of folly committed something which u will regret and never be able to turn back the clock. dun gave up ur 99.9% for tt 0.1% and then come to realise too late tt its not worth it at all........coz its will never be worth it!!

posted by yee2 @ Sunday, December 16, 2007