My Princess Diary

ReSpOnsIbIliTy

today want to talk abt responsibility!!
responsible to family, friends, partners and ownself..responsible to anything or anybody....
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i see stephy being responible to her bb, garreth. feed him, bath him, clothe him, play with him, be there for him when he misbehaves and get into trouble and eventually will be to provide education. all these no joke lor
tts why were we just saying the other day, not easy to start a family, have bb. not just "poo" and one char siew pao come out and put into mouth and eat it up lor. one "poo" and comes with lots of responsibilities one.

why i wanted to blog abt "responsibility" coz i happened to go and read one's blog and realised she no changed lor. i used to read her blog everyday at work, without fail when i was in my ex ex firm. someone told me tt she started a blog and gave me the add and i was like hook to it till one day i got sick and tired of her "stories" and stopped gg in. when i first read her blog, i felt tt perhaps, maybe i misunderstood her lor. and then i heard TRUE LIFE stories of her and decided that she is very irresponsible lor. why she wants to be a third party when she already am happily attached. why she cannot be contended with what she has? in her most recent blog, she mentioned something abt she being "just another girl" to him, Surprised!! she knew she was "just another girl" then why not be "THE ONE GIRL" to that special someone....why can't she just move on, get a life?? she has to be responsible to herself rite? so what if she wrecked tt's mystery man's happy r/s with someone else? will he belongs to her? he would have gone to look for someone else too and she will still be "just another girl" to him. if he really wants to be with her like she wants to be with him, he would have just leave his current r/s and be with her now. why go thru so much trouble???

frankly speaking, who wants to be "just another girl"? for sure, i dun want to be. but guessed i was once "just another thing"....hehehe....so contradicting rite? alwasy easy to tell someone off, but when u r in the shit, u dun see it urself.. did i ever mentioned to u tt when i was very much younger, my ambition was not to be a QS (actually whose ambition is to be a QS..hehehe...who knows what QS is anyway. blah! whatever), i wanted to be a MISTRESS!!! wahahaha *lmao* =P. if u r in the same era as moi, i think u will know what i mean. watched too much t bee liao lor.....last time SBC aka current TCS showed the chinese serial, all the mistress very suk kee one. pretty, understanding most impt the guy will loves them very very the muchie lor and showered them with tender loving care and lots of attention. how much muchie, u may asked, is so much muchie than to their own wives. its always best to be "THE OTHER WOMAN" not "just another girl" ok....being " the other woman" and "just another girl" is very the different lor. only unglaourous part is when the wife found out of this "THE OTHER WOMAN" whole gin clan of 3 6 aunties will stormed to ur house and wrecked havoc and the most impt screen will then appeared, the wife will "pia" slapped "THE OTHER WOMAN" and warned her to leave her hubby and her family alone. if she is lucky she will be thrown a cheque if not, sometimes the guy will arrived and dragged the wife away and then forever will leave "THE OTHER WOMAN" this only happens if the wife's family is rich and the guy depends on his wife to get rich lor.....anyway, in short, never a happey ending for the mistress one, unless wife dies.....hehehe or the wife accepted this "little wife" lor. so u see, who wants to be "just another girl"???!!want to be also be "THE OTHER WOMAN"

ppl can celebrate with tt special someone on special occasions, on birthdays, on every other normal days, but what does she has? pathetically, i must say, she has nothing. she will be lonely on these days. can she complain? can she grumble? NO WAY MAN!! coz its a road which she chosen it herself. no one to blame.....except for herself. so what if the guy send her flowers and made her day? send her smses once in awhile? bring her out for a walk to some ulu places where no one they knew can spot them. is this what she wants and what she expecting for the rest of her life? what a silly girl i must say she is? the guy is responsible to his current r/s and yet in the same time being irresponsible to her.......what a jerk!!

i simply cannot understand why why why? so many why? "if u love tt someone, u will never do things to hurt her. " someone told me this once. i think what he said is correct, but when u in shit, u dun really see it this way. u find excuses for him. but sometimes, u just got to wake up. and i wonder when this girl will wake up.....there will never be any good ending out of this......

and guys and gals out there! if u are happily engaged in a r/s, dun ever, i mean, physically and mentally, dun ever gets off track. coz as the saying goes "mirror broken, forever broken. cannot be mended back. there will still be cracked lines on it". dun becoz of a moment of folly, ruined everything....u no build rome in a day lor.....but u can destroyed in within seconds!! *so much ink* =P

posted by yee2 @ Tuesday, December 04, 2007