My Princess Diary

PoOr HiM

guessed what happened on sat nite??!!??
can't guess rite
well, apparently, we were in his room and he is doing his work and i just laze ard, his mama suddenly came into the room to pass me the bowl of strawberries coated with honey (yum yum)
then, his mama opened her golden mouth "u know there is this new flat at kallang? tt day i went to see with u sister. very nice u know. but exp lah. but its all fully furnished. can moved in condition. i have a bronchure but left it with ur sister. u all got go see or not? go and see lah."
*SILENCE*
i just smiled at his mama and his eyes remained fix to the monitor.
then his mama tried again "go and see. really very nice one. the master bedroom got balcony leh. very nice. timber one. i like timber flooring. 5 room leh"
then she looked at me and i just smiled but the room still *SILENCE*
then the ultimate "u two not gg to buy a flat meh?"
then he replied "buy flat dun need to finance huh?" (wa!! the son finally opened his mouth)
then the mama took opportunity "hm..then we sell away this unit and go buy tt one lah. then u go finance tt unit. really very nice, i like"
*SILENCE*
i still smiling (what else can i do? this is b/w the mama and son)
then mama made eye contact with me but i think i better shut up coz its not my business.
then the mama still no give up and went "u two dun want to get marry meh? how can?"
and i just smiled but the room still *SILENCE*
then the mama laffed and said "oh dear, now my son will be angry with me for being so nosy." she laffed, looked at me, made a face and then she left the room. very smart mama. knows her son very well. better get out of the room before the son explodes.....lolz

though she left, the room still very *SILENCE* and very cold
apparently, i think i wasn't happy liao
dun asked me why
but i just dun feel happy
so i did not talk any more after tt
he did he work and played his game in silence
then he find a movie to watch online
i think he sensed (or maybe he doesn't) tt i was extremely very quiet
i didn't even fight with him for the "circle seat" i sat on the floor while he laid on the bed. he did asked me "why u sit there?" i just shrugged my shoulders and replied "here can still watch"
then we continued to watch the movie in silence but of course he was laffing lah. its was a comedy show. i wasn't. i was deep in my own thoughts....he did stole a few glances on and off but i just wasn't laffing. and when he turned and laffed, i just cake cake laff with him lor. what else can i do??

i finally experienced what he meant when he said tt his mama will occassionally "forced" him to get marry.......i am very lucky and must count my blessings tt my parents do not give me such pressure and stress. =))

apparently, dear told me before tt he has no urgency to settle down. he once said tt his ideal age was to settle down at 30. and since he has passed tt age, there is no urgency for him to settle down yet. apparently, he was just like me. if u knows me very well, and i meant really very well, u should know tt i want to settle down at the age of 21........muahahaha.......dun asked me why such tender age, the age of FREEDOM!! then it became 24 then 26 and then 28 then i have no more wished to settle down......hahaha........guessed tts why we both click

though i kept telling honey tt i really wanted to know whether did he plan anything for our future and whether am i in his plan. its not becoz i want to get marry, now, instantly, there and then!! i just want to know "am i in his plan". just like the article on karen mok today, she admitted of her r/s with stephen chow ( 3 yrs) and stephen fung (9 yrs), the r/s has been established but no commitment given so what else to do but to call it quits lor. its not as if tt if the guys proposed the girl must nod her head lor. but yet least, at least let her know what's the future if they continue on together. like what honey told me when i confided in her, she said something like "not as if we really want to marry there and then, but we just need to know. esp he can promised the stars and moon and sun now but nobody knows what really will happened in the near future. but we just need to know what is the plan for now."

so take for example, he may say "i see us settling down in 3 yrs time with this and tt and whatever shit" and then hear already also "shuang" lor. at least there seemed to have a future and a plan. but in 3 yrs time, whether still together or not, is another issue lor. as simple as tt.

but moral of the story is, poor him!! imagine if my parents do tt to me everyday, esp now i am jobless and lazing ard at home, i tell u , OMG!! i can die lor...... =P

posted by yee2 @ Monday, April 28, 2008