My Princess Diary

WhAt HaPpEnEd??

i kept forgetting to blog abt this
maybe let what i told qi, i am old liao
very forgetful
hehehe

actually also nothing serious lah
but i simply dun understand..............
perhaps this is life and perhaps this is love........
"asked the world what is this thing called love.........blah blah blah"

long long time ago, this guy met a girl thru his friends
they hit it off and soon became an item
one cny evening, they had a talk over the phone
they are raising an issue b/w them
guy = christian. girl = non christian
girl dun want = christian. guy dun know what to do
they talked and discussed and decided to "let it go"
girl cried but promised tt she will be strong. guy also cried and was sad
suddenly, guy drove out to meet girl and decided tt "what the heck. as long as they both love each other can already. religion is afterall just a religion"
so couple made up but did their r/s become stronger????

girl went overseas for study. guy wanted to go ago
but to go along, they need to get married
they decided tt "dun want to so hurry everything just becoz want to go overseas together"
so guy stayed but went over with the girl for one month just to make sure tt everything is alright and make sure she settled down well
so sweet rite???!! ahhhh.......
but did their r/s become stronger??

1 yr plus passed by
i happened to be online and emailed this guy
updated him on my job searching and i asked him for some update
when i said tt he can marry once his gf come back for good
he told me "no. something happened."
and i went "har? what happened?"
he said "somehow or rather, i decided tt my partner must have the same religion as me. i cannot accept tt she is a non christian"
and i went "blank"
what the F*** is this kind of crap reason!!! but honestly speaking, i respect his religion, but i thought they have settled their differences long time ago? why now?

frankly speaking, i was very sad
very very sad
i could have cried like a baby if i were his gf
and i am over there and he is over here
i cannot see or touch him, let alone let him know what he said has just torn me apart
sigh
why like this?

if it happened to me last time, i could have fight on
but the TODAY me, as i said before, i would still cry (i supposed. afterall its the rights of women rite) but i will not fight
as i mentioned before, if ppl want to snatch my thing and my thing decides for himself/itself, tt its time to leave, then i will let it go and also give them my blessings from the bottom of my heart. i will not fight for something which is not meant to mine. in other words, i dun have to fight if that thing belongs to me. if it no longer loves me, then why fight............

but still, i am sad to hear this pc of news...really am
i do hope tt they can work out something
dun let the religion be an obtacle b/w them
afterall so many ups and downs, so many obtacles, i doubt this should be the kind of ending lor
really.......

anyway, on a happier note
akai emailed us yesterday and informed us tt he is holding his customary dinner in JULY
a bit of shocking to me
coz i thought he didnt want a wedding dinner
and it has been like donkey years (at least to me lah) but then, must have lah. complete the cycle. once a life time experience.
so happy for them =))

posted by yee2 @ Tuesday, May 27, 2008